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Caring About Your Mental Health


Do I Need Therapy, or Am I Just Burned Out?
If you’ve found yourself Googling “ do I need therapy or am I just burned out”, you’re not being dramatic. You’re being self-aware. This is one of the most common questions we hear from clients, especially people who are high-functioning, responsible, and very good at holding it all together. Until they’re not. So let’s talk about it without shame, labels, or pressure. First Things First: Burnout Is Real Burnout is not just “being tired.” Burnout happens when stress has been
Jacob Holbrook
Jan 213 min read


How to Talk to a Therapist Who Gets ENM
Learn how to find and talk to an ENM-affirming therapist who understands ethical non-monogamy — and why it’s essential for building trust and safety in therapy.
Jacob Holbrook
Jun 6, 20253 min read


Just Because It’s Summer Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Need Therapy
Learn why therapy still matters in summer — and how to stay consistent with therapy in the summer using online therapy options, flexible scheduling, and intentional support.
Jacob Holbrook
Jun 6, 20252 min read


Rest Is Not a Reward — It’s a Right
Your mind and body deserve maintenance. Explore how intentional mental health days can help you recharge, reduce overwhelm, and gently protect your peace.
Jacob Holbrook
May 3, 20252 min read


The Art of Unclenching: Teaching Your Body It’s Safe Now
Learn why hypervigilance, shutdown, and people-pleasing aren’t signs of weakness but survival strategies from past trauma. Discover how to gently retrain your nervous system to feel safe again.
Jacob Holbrook
May 3, 20252 min read


Spring Cleaning for the Mind: Clearing Emotional Clutter
Spring is here, and you know what that means—time to clean out the junk drawer, shake off the winter blues, and make space for fresh...
Jacob Holbrook
Apr 2, 20254 min read


What is Jealousy in ENM Really Telling You?
Jealousy. Just hearing the word can bring up a mix of emotions like shame, fear, and frustration. In monogamous relationships, jealousy is often framed as the ultimate red flag. It is seen as proof that something is wrong, unhealthy, or doomed to fail. But jealousy in ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a different conversation entirely. So what does it mean when jealousy shows up in a non-monogamous relationship? Does it mean you are not “cut out” for ENM, or could it be pointing
Jacob Holbrook
Apr 2, 20253 min read


Balancing Act: Navigating Anxiety in the Workplace
Anxiety in the workplace is an increasingly common challenge that many individuals face. Whether it stems from performance pressure,...

Melissa Holbrook, LMFT
Jan 6, 20253 min read


Navigating through Mental Wellness Roadblocks: Overcoming Resolution Barriers and Achieving Your Goals
Setting resolutions often marks a fresh start, filled with hope and the potential for personal growth. However, as we pursue our...

Melissa Holbrook, LMFT
Dec 30, 20243 min read


Surviving the Holiday Chaos: Navigating Family Gatherings with Grace and Mental Health in Mind
The holiday season can evoke a mix of emotions—joy, excitement, stress, and even anxiety. For many, family gatherings are a highlight of...

Melissa Holbrook, LMFT
Dec 23, 20243 min read


Embracing Wellness: The Benefits of Mental Health Therapy
Therapy Can Add Many Benefits To Our Lives By: Melissa Holbrook In today’s fast-paced world, prioritizing mental health is more important...

Melissa Holbrook, LMFT
Dec 16, 20242 min read
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